The Woman Who Refused to Be a Second Ghost There once was a man who carried a wound so deep it lived in the marrow of his shadow. As a boy, he had let down the woman who gave him breath — and before he could make it right, death came and sealed her eyes … Continue reading The Mirror That Died Before Him (Twice)
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When Love Is a Bypass: Reclaiming Disgust as Discernment
There’s a popular idea in spiritual spaces that love means loving everything. That if you feel disgust, aversion, or rejection toward something — it’s a sign that you haven’t “healed it” yet. That you’re supposed to alchemize that feeling and merge with what repels you. That you’re not spiritually evolved until you can embrace everything … Continue reading When Love Is a Bypass: Reclaiming Disgust as Discernment
Discern the difference
There's a difference between allowing and avoiding…There's a difference between letting go and denying responsibility…There's a difference between trusting and hoping…There's a difference between relaxing and escaping… The difference must be felt.. discerned…Through honesty, reflection and courage is how you will tell the difference You must take responsibility for what's ON your plateWHILEnot taking responsibility … Continue reading Discern the difference
Nothing exists in a vacuum- context matters
It's difficult to give advice or share insights REMOVED from experiences. True understanding comes within context and in relation to real life experiences. That's the reason why you need DISCERNMENT. Discernment, and specifically Nuanced Discernment takes into consideration context, relationships and prior attempts. To know what the proper response is, you need other factors. Therefore, … Continue reading Nothing exists in a vacuum- context matters
What is Nuanced Discernment?
Nuanced Discernment is a process… it's a way of life… it's never over, never done… there's alway more to learn, always more to discover… always more and more subtleties to discern… Such is life!
Nuanced Discernment 